Hi! I am Ela! I am a warm, loving, joking person with a lot of zest for life. I was born in the sign of Aries and,.like any Aries, I love adventures and challenges of any kind.. What turns me on the most in a man?..Intelligence!..He has to know how to read a woman's mind and find her G-spot which it can't always find in her genitals.. What turn me off in a man ? lie, infatuation and hypocrisy..